eWN Relationship Advice Column

[Tommy Thunder]

She's text back..

"nothing..just feeling sick.."

What the fuck do I text?!?!

After this you should have expressed concern, hope she felt better, and leave it at that.

Thing is though, she was fine all day, I even walked her home. Suddenly, when I get home, I chill for 3-4 hours. And text her, and she's ill all of a sudden. I'm gonna go to her house after Sixth Form tomorrow though.

You should ask before yo go round, don't just show up lol!

Plus, doesn't the fact that you're ending each message with several x's and she isn't leaving a single one back (unless you're leaving those out) tell you something?

[Shaz11]

After this you should have expressed concern, hope she felt better, and leave it at that.



You should ask before yo go round, don't just show up lol!

Plus, doesn't the fact that you're ending each message with several x's and she isn't leaving a single one back (unless you're leaving those out) tell you something?

That was the whole point of this. I wanted to know if it meant anything.

[AshleyPunk]

That was the whole point of this. I wanted to know if it meant anything.

I am one of those people that will not give x's when i am annoyed or unwell, so it isn't uncommon but, if she was okay i may be a cause for concern in that aspect

[MattElder]

That was the whole point of this. I wanted to know if it meant anything.

If your going round tomoro, just call in, with something to make her feel better, wether it be a dvd you have and she likes or a cd or something then just wish her well and leave.

Im assuming with you mentioning 6th form that this is your 1st serious relationship, I dont mean to put a downer on things but stuff ill get weird and probability says you will break up sooner or later... so try and not get too attcahced.

On that note, the wife as gone to bed and this is my chance to woo her so peace out

[Tommy Thunder]

I am one of those people that will not give x's when i am annoyed or unwell, so it isn't uncommon but, if she was okay i may be a cause for concern in that aspect

I'm one of those guys that won't reply with any x's unless there's any in the text, plus I'll never return more than I receive. An my main rule, I'll never use more than 5 at the very most. Sending back "xxxxxxxxxxxxx" looks desperate IMO.

[Robstar]

Could be anything dude, She may have been ill earlier, she may have come over ill or she may feel down,

BUT she isnt ignoring you, If it was me I'd just send a text after she said she was ill, wishing her well soon and letting her know whats wrong with you.

A perfect example My wife told me she wasnt feeling well, I knew something else was bothering her but if she didnt want to tell me what could I do? So I went upstairs ran her a bath and had her hot water bottle waiting in bed for her....The next day she told me her problems.

If there is something else she will tell you when she's ready, until then just accept what she says cos thats all you can go off, and you will never be in trouble because your only going off what she told you

Thanks for restoring my faith bro!

[Shaz11]

I'm one of those guys that won't reply with any x's unless there's any in the text, plus I'll never return more than I receive. An my main rule, I'll never use more than 5 at the very most. Sending back "xxxxxxxxxxxxx" looks desperate IMO.

LOL. I didn't send xxxxxxxxxxxx. I only sent 3 x's. I was just using all those x's out of boredom.

[Tommy Thunder]

LOL. I didn't send xxxxxxxxxxxx. I only sent 3 x's. I was just using all those x's out of boredom.

I hope for your sake that's the case lol!

[Wade Barrett 1979]

Problem with doing a thread like this is too many idea's. I've just read over Shaz's problem and the poor lad is confused to shit now, with so many differing perspectives.

Sometimes with situations like these you're best off sucking it up and learning for yourself. You're only young Shaz mate, you'll make plenty of mistakes and learn plenty of lessons but that's all part of the fun of it all.

You'd be better off speaking to just a couple of your peers at most, an older mate you trust or an older relative.

[Robstar]

Ok, Wade's right. Gonna close this.