eWN Relationship Advice Column

[Robstar]

Come on Jose! Don't tell me Backstreet Boys don't have a song to cover that?

The only problem I would have with long distance is if there was some issue of faithfulness. If that's not a problem, then consider yourself lucky. Personally I have been outside of a relationship for 5 years and if I had what you had, I'd feel fortunate. You know, as long it wasn't toxic. Beware of overkill in relationships - at first it seems so natural and perfect to be together all the time but it works against the relationship. Nothing wrong with taking your time bro. Find other things to do with your time so you're not thinking about it constantly and try as hard as you fucking can not to be an everyday caller. If you're doing that, you're probably co-dependent and that's to be avoided.

[HolyJose2391]

Come on Jose! Don't tell me Backstreet Boys don't have a song to cover that?

The only problem I would have with long distance is if there was some issue of faithfulness. If that's not a problem, then consider yourself lucky. Personally I have been outside of a relationship for 5 years and if I had what you had, I'd feel fortunate. You know, as long it wasn't toxic. Beware of overkill in relationships - at first it seems so natural and perfect to be together all the time but it works against the relationship. Nothing wrong with taking your time bro. Find other things to do with your time so you're not thinking about it constantly and try as hard as you fucking can not to be an everyday caller. If you're doing that, you're probably co-dependent and that's to be avoided.

Actually Backstreets Boys have plenty of songs

and it's not a bad thing we just both are like "we hate this distance" and yeah we talk all the time and we're not codependent. and to be clear I'm 21 and this is my first girlfriend so yeah. We're both extremely happy we're together

[Asherdelampyr]

That's pretty much how we do it. Twice a month we see each other. Once we went a whole month and we promised never to do that again

Twice a month can keep things up for now, but what is the long term plan? is this leading to something down the line where you two will be in a place to have a "full" (For lack of a better term) relationship?

[HolyJose2391]

Twice a month can keep things up for now, but what is the long term plan? is this leading to something down the line where you two will be in a place to have a "full" (For lack of a better term) relationship?

Well she is a year younger than I am. And the school she is at now is the only school in my state that has the counseling psychology program I want so definitely applying to that school for Grad school. And who knows what God has in store.

[wrestlingfan66513]

wow there truly is a thread for everything now (except Ewn online dating lol)

[Awesome Bomb]

wow there truly is a thread for everything now (except Ewn online dating lol)

*hint* *hint*

[Shaz11]

So in a text, if a girl goes from 20+ "x"'s, to no x's at all for 5 messages. Does that mean anything?

Stupid question I know, but I'm worried..

[wrestlingfan66513]

So in a text, if a girl goes from 20+ "x"'s, to no x's at all for 5 messages. Does that mean anything?

Stupid question I know, but I'm worried..

Don't think so, they are just calming down from my experience or don't feel like typing

[Shaz11]

Don't think so, they are just calming down from my experience or don't feel like typing

Fair enough dude. Thanks.

[AshleyPunk]

So in a text, if a girl goes from 20+ "x"'s, to no x's at all for 5 messages. Does that mean anything?

Stupid question I know, but I'm worried..

From a girls perspective, maybe something is wrong? Ask?