I sent this in a PM to somebody earlier so I figured I may as well share my misery with the rest of you so let me tell you a little story...
I don't know why I'm telling you this but I guess It's because at the moment I'm pissed and I don't really have anyone else to tell....When I went out on my last tour in Iraq, the one where the IED fucked me up so bad, I was married. When I first got married it was right before my first tour and both she and I felt that if something were to happen to me while I was there, She wanted my last name and I wanted the satisfaction of knowing that I had a wife at home waiting on me when I return.
Well I went on my first tour which was 6 months, and when I came back I had a loving wife waiting on me with open arms. I spent 30 days back at home before I shipped out on my second tour which was going to be a year this time. I came home this time to find that something just wasn't right. She was still the same loving caring girl I married but something just didn't feel right. I dismissed it at being "shell shocked" because I had heard from many soldiers that after being away for so long it takes a long while to get back accustomed to being back in civilian life. I got right at 3 months home this time before shipping out to my third tour.
I shipped out, and was in Iraq this third time for almost 5 months when the bomb blew on morning patrol. I had no idea I was even hurt and performed cpr on my best friend who passed away. I was flown immediately to Texas where I had my first surgery that gave me an artificial kneecap.
What I'm getting to is I found out from my MOM while I'm laying in bed recovering from my surgery that my wife had found another guy while I was away and had him living with her while still talking to me via skype a couple times a week/ spending my money I was earning while overseas. She had some dude sleeping in MY bed in MY house fucking MY WIFE while spending MY money.....needless to say I'm on my way to getting divorced.
What has me so pissed is she is putting in my divorce claim that she "suffered mental distress from having her husband in Iraq" which caused her to cheat on me. She's trying to take every fucking thing I own. I just found out a few minutes ago. Fuck. My. Life.