
Originally Posted by
Darkside Ron Garvin
I don't think that what you are talking about (or what Dennis is doing) is actually "being nice" to females. It's called being a lost little puppy dog who is willing to do everything possible to be considered "cute" enough to be taken home and fed. "Being Nice" to me is the simple charm of etiquette like opening doors, paying for dinner, wasting your gas and not hers... Going to the extremes that you are talking about is called "Being a Doormat" and I am not the kind of person who willingly lays down for someone to wipe the shit off their feet.
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I'm just using the wording he used DRG, since any deviation seems to just cause further confusion. And yes, I agree with you - "nice" has it's time and place. I'm just saying that his version of "nice" is not being "nice" to himself. And what makes me angrier about it - and you put it perfectly when you used the term "doormat" - is that he is ruining these girls' sense of expectation. They going to go ahead and think there are plenty of guys out there with all the qualities Dennis offers, plus the one he doesn't - appeal.
Look at the pic in his sig - look at that girl
sitting on that fucking guy! And I bet Dennis doesn't see much wrong with that. "He's just being nice!" No, he's being
sat on! What girl can respect that? What guy can respect himself after that?
And Den Den, remember this little fact - girls - all girls - will know if you have any lack of self respect or doubt about your own personality. They can
smell it on you, the scent of doubt and uncertainty that mixes together into that sickly sweet aroma of failure.
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