Originally Posted by Robstar
Well, one thing I've been noticing about her is that despite everything that's good about her life she always finds something to gripe about and half of my news feed keeps getting filled with her statuses about how "she's feeling down" and how "she doesn't know what to do with her life". To me, after all the time I put into trying to make her feel better about herself and try to get her into realizing her blessings in life, it just felt like a slap in the face. It's almost as if she was getting her rocks off from seeing me sweat. That's when I decided that I had had enough. Today, she gave me some more emotional baggage to deal with and I didn't beat around the bush. I had this to say:
"You know what? I'm done. I'm tired of pandering to your fortified inferiority complex and not get any results from it in return. I've wasted enough time trying to make you realize how good you have it in life. You have a car, you have grandparents who love you, you're in a relationship and you get to go to a college where you get to see most of your friends from high school. Despite all that, all I see you do is lament about problems that you instigate, by being a complete annoyance, or minor problems that you blow out of proportion and then you expect me to console you. Listen, I've got a lot more productive things to do than me your personal counselor. This is the last summer of my life where I'll actually get to enjoy myself and I don't need to be taxed with dealing with your crap. You don't even have the decency to humor me into making me believe that what I have to say actually has an effect on you. Instead, it's bitch, console, repeat. I'm done playing this game and I'm done giving you illusions. You need help. Serious help and you're not going to get it from me any longer. I don't hate you but this drama isn't something that I want to deal with and at this point, I don't see ourselves being able to talk with each other anymore.
So in short, don't text me, don't talk to me, don't PM me, don't FB stalk me, don't visit my house because I won't invest any time into acknowledging your "problems" or your existence. It's for your own good."